Sunday, May 8, 2016

The Sparrow and the Old man .


There was once an old man who had a wife with a very bad temper. She had never borne him any children, and would not take the trouble to adopt a son. So for a little pet he kept a tiny sparrow, and fed it with great care. The old dame, not satisfied with scolding her husband, hated the sparrow.
Now the old woman's temper was especially bad on wash days, when her old back and knees were well strained over the low tub, which rested on the ground. It happened once that she had made some starch, and set it in a red wooden bowl to cool. While her back was turned, the sparrow hopped down on the edge of the bowl, and pecked at some of the starch. In a rage the old hag seized a pair of scissors and cut the sparrow's tongue out. Flinging the bird in the air she cried out, "Now be off." So the poor sparrow, all bleeding, flew away.
When the old man came back and found his pet gone, he made a great ado. He asked his wife, and she told him what she had done and why. The sorrowful old man grieved sorely for his pet, and after looking in every place and calling it by name, gave it up as lost.
Long after this, old man while wandering on the mountains met his old friend the sparrow. They both cried "Ohio!" (good morning) to each other, and bowing low offered many mutual congratulations and inquiries as to health, etc. Then the sparrow begged the old man to visit his humble abode, promising to introduce his wife and two daughters.
The old man went in and found a nice little house with a bamboo garden, tiny waterfall, stepping stone, and everything complete. Then Mrs. Sparrow brought in slices of sugar-jelly, rock-candy, sweet potato custard, and a bowl of hot starch sprinkled with sugar, and a pair of chopsticks on a tray. Miss Suzumi, the elder daughter brought the tea caddy and teapot, and in a snap of the fingers had a good cup of tea ready, which she offered on a tray, kneeling.
"Please take up and help yourself. The refreshments are very poor, but I hope you will excuse our plainness," said Mother Sparrow. The delighted old man, wondering in himself at such a polite family of sparrows, ate heartily, and drank several cups of tea. Finally, on being pressed he remained all night.
For several days the old man enjoyed himself at the sparrow's home. He looked at the landscapes and the moonlight, feasted to his heart's content, and played go (the game of 360 checkers) with Ko-Suzumi the little daughter. In the evening Mrs. Sparrow would bring out the refreshments and the wine, and seat the old man on a silken cushion, while she played the guitar. Mr. Sparrow and his two daughters danced, sung, and made merry. The delighted old man leaning on the velvet armrest forgot his cares, his old limbs, and his wife's tongue, and felt like a youth again.
On the fifth day the old man said he must go home. Then the sparrow brought out two baskets made of plaited rattan, such as are used in traveling and carried on men's shoulders. Placing them before their guest, the sparrow said, "Please accept a parting gift."
Now one basket was very heavy, and the other very light. The old man, not being greedy, said he would take the lighter one. So with many thanks and bows and good-byes, he set off homewards.
He reached his hut safely, but instead of a kind welcome the old hag began to scold him for being away so long. He begged her to be quiet, and telling of his visit to the sparrows, opened the basket, while the scowling old woman held her tongue, out of sheer curiosity.
Oh, what a splendid sight! There were gold and silver coin, and gems, and coral, and crystal, and amber, and the never-failing bag of money, and the invisible coat and hat, and rolls of books, and all manner of precious things.
At the sight of so much wealth, the old hag's scowl changed to a smile of greedy joy. "I'll go right off and get a present from the sparrows," said she.
So binding on her straw sandals, and tucking up her skirts, and adjusting her girdle, tying the bow in front, she seized her staff and set off on the road. Arriving at the sparrow's house she began to flatter Mr. Sparrow by soft speeches. Of course the polite sparrow invited her into his house, but nothing but a cup of tea was offered her, and wife and daughters kept away. Seeing she was not going to get any good-bye gift, the brazen hussy asked for one. The sparrow then brought out and set before her two baskets, one heavy and the other light. Taking the heavier one without so much as saying "thank you," she carried it back with her. Then she opened it, expecting all kinds of riches.
She took off the lid, when a horrible cuttlefish rushed at her, and a horned onisnapped his tusks at her, a skeleton poked his bony fingers in her face, and finally a long, hairy serpent, with a big head and lolling tongue, sprang out and coiled around her, cracking her bones, and squeezing out her breath, till she died.

After the good old man had buried his wife, he adopted a son to comfort his old age, and with his treasures lived at ease all his days

- tales from Japan

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Karma Yogi .




before I rest, yes and forever i sleep, twilight is upon me and the night falls peacefully  .  .  I must earn it  

- karma Yogi


Saturday, April 30, 2016

Problems !

Do u have a problem in your life?
NO!
Then why worry??

Do u have a problem in life?
YES:
CAn u do something about it ??
YES
Get it Done .
Then why worry??

- Swami Satchitananda


Do u have a problem and you cannot do anything about it !!
Then accept it , bear it . Your worry is not going to help it bit spoil other works !

Friday, April 22, 2016

An open minded persepective

Perspective is key

The free-thinker uses the power of perspective to the maximum. If not at all times we should use it when needed. Perspective changes everything. What we feel or think about something can dissolve or flip the other way round just by changing perspective. Even the strongest of views and beliefs can change when a newer perspective is reached.
                                         What seems like loss can be seen as opportunity just by changing your perspective. Adversity can turn into a learning opportunity; problems can turn into a solution; what is failure from one perspective can be seen as a launching pad for success from another.When you think freely you know that there is always more than one perspective on a given situation.
                                 
                                            You just need to view things from another angle. I like to use the internal courtyard analogy. We are all windows in a circular building overlooking an internal courtyard. The perspective from my window is different than the others. Hence, if I want to have a better picture of the courtyard of life I need to look at it from other windows.



Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Life's wasted and life Lived


Take risks do what you want to do , even if you have failed it still means you have done something with your life, its a valuable experience , you are bound to finish well some day . If you have lived someones else's life then it means you have wasted your life . Your existence wasted . Are you living someone else perception of a perfect life ?

Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Warriors and their Ways . .


When you stand between an enemy and our loved ones , Know you have to be tough , you have to be unbeaten to keep your loved ones unhurt . The safety of your loved ones what you love depends on you . Your aim has to be accurate that it does not miss , your mind honed sharp to be ready for the dangers of the fight , your body strong to take the blows and move through the battle , Your skill a natural like the casual movement of hand always the same unthinkingly . Such should be the warrior , so that others can depend on you . These commitment levels needed to be warrior to not lose, because in fight a tenth of a second and an inch means life and death .

Such are Qualities needed to be a warrior , efforts are needed to make them what they are , above the quality to put life on line someone else .

 As it is said well   " A nation which forgets it heroes will soon be forgotten  "  . 



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Monday, April 11, 2016

The Samurai Way .



The Samurai way .

            There is something to be learned from the Samurai warriors of Japan . Their dedication , code of              contact , unflinching service to their duties made some gems come out . . 

 The samurai's saw life and death from a close distance in the course of their duty. They would be dead i n any minute in a battle or fending an attack. This made them to appreciate Life more.The life of the Samurai not only became was of discipline and military education, but a rich cultivation of the spirit and mind through the arts of writing, painting, calligraphy, philosophy, etc. It was as if a Renaissance was being experienced within their social sect. Zen provided the warrior class with personal enlightenment, polishedness, and refinement. 


The unwritten Samurai code of conduct, known as Bushido, held that the true warrior must hold loyalty, courage, veracity, compassion, and honour as important, above all else. An appreciation and respect of life was also imperative, as it added balance to the warrior character of the Samurai. He was often very stoic with a deep and strong philosophical passion. He could be deadly in combat and yet gentle and compassionate with children and the weak ones.
Zen Buddhism influenced them greatly giving them enlightenment for good judgment, personal growth, and self-awareness. Their exposure and immersion into philosophy and the arts expanded their perspectives and lifted them beyond the limits of their own feudal rule and culture. This is where Bushido, the Samurai Code of Conduct has its origins.
Bushido is the unwritten code of conduct of the Samurai. Literally, Bushido means "warrior - samurai - ways". Bushi is a term for warrior, but directly infers a more prestigious or higher class warrior. The "ways" or "way" is a term used by most "do-martial arts" (such as: Judo, Kendo, Aikido, and Iaido), which means "the way to”.
Influencing Bushido, Zen Buddhism lent to the Samurai a very Stoic disposition. This Stoicism was realized out of a genuine respect for life and also for death. Death, an inevitable eventuality of our own lives, is as much a part of nature as is life. It gives us an added level of thought and meaning to our existence. With the advent of death, there is the introduction of life. There are strong human emotions of anger, remorse, and detachment, etc., that are associated with death that complicate its understanding. However we are gifted by these very same feelings, that allow us to appreciate life and the things we enjoy and love. We most notably appreciate the things we take for granted once they are gone forever. The Samurai trust and faith in nature was because of the great admiration and respect for both life and death.
In tune with this level of consciousness, Shinotism also influenced the Bushido of the Samurai. To seek honor by first looking inside the soul and confront the intimate fears that we hide from ourselves, and that plague our psyche in everyday life. This is the purification of one’s soul --- " . . . to know thyself ". In addition, Shinotism brought a sense of filial piety and loyalty to the family and homeland. When you " . . . know yourself, you know your weaknesses and strengths, and most of all - you know where you belong." This sense of belonging has been attributed to the patriotic and nationalistic culture of Japan even to this day.
Another factor in the backbone of the code of Bushido was Confucianism. It bonded community and family relationships. These relationships had several different moral priorities or qualities to them. In feudal Japan, the samurai served various different lords and their loyalty was given to them. This association was that of servant and master. The samurai himself was the head of his family. The safety and well-being depended upon him. His role was that of head of the house, husband, father, brother, or son.
This all made them live a complete life and live their life to the fullest .

The Samurai Warrior,
·        holds loyalty, courage, veracity, compassion, and honor as important, above all else
·        has an appreciation and respect of life
·        is deadly in combat and yet gentle and compassionate with children and the weak
·        strive for enlightenment for good judgment, personal growth, and self-awareness
·        practices some type of martial art skill or something that helps him or her develop physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually
·        uses Death as his or her advisor not his or her enemy
·        seeks to understand the phrase, “Know thyself!”
·        seeks communal and family relationships and understanding the role of the servant and the master


Bushido has been further described as a uniquely eastern practice that has often been compared to the code of chivalry followed by the European knights.  The following are eight principles of bushido:
  • Jin - to develop a sympathetic understanding of people
  • Gi - to preserve the correct ethics
  • Chu - to show loyalty to one's master
  • Ko - to respect and to care for one's parents
  • Rei - to show respect for others
  • Chi - to enhance wisdom by broadening one's knowledge
  • Shin - to be truthful at all times
  • Tei - to care for the aged and those of a humble station


Excerpts from the BUSHIDO: WARRIOR CODE OF CONDUCT
by Cheryl Matrasko

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Finding The Mythical Center ! !


How to  Find Your Center .

Deadlines, to-do lists, projects, and responsibilities: they all help make our lives feel a little too hectic, unmanageable, and even out of control. When you notice that your life is becoming chaotic and you feel as if you're losing ground, you can quickly and easily find your center again,with just a few simple steps.  –
 



The centre of being – It is a part of you which defines you. Your core. The point of your fullest abilities . Where the soul is balanced , knows you and lets you operate towards your evolution , complete ,content self. For sure everyone can reach there.We were born with it. It takes some maturity,personal growth , acceptance of who we are and a commitment to better ourselves. You will know how it goes, when you journey there !

3 Pillars for Centering.
The three pillars for centering are awareness, attention, and intention.






Attention 

 
Once you become aware that you've lost your center, you have the opportunity to make a conscious choice to shift your internal state.
A conscious choice-maker is someone who makes choices that are designed to unfold higher levels of potential.
First, you must be aware of the need to redirect your energy or focus.
To begin cultivating yourcentre, start each new day or each new project by closing your eyes, taking a few deep breaths, and imagining that everything you approach is from a place of centered balance. See, hear, and feel yourself moving effortlessly through every experience with clarity, focus, and awareness. Let this vision or sensation become an anchor for how you want to consciously move through your days. Notice how you begin to feel more at peace as you do this, then open your eyes and continue your whole day .


Attention in Action 

 
The second step is to notice where your attention is being directed in the moment. Attention means you are mindful of what’s swirling around you.
When you come into present-moment awareness, your attention is based in the here and now. This is when you can begin to observe yourself and your environment.
Place your attention first on your breathing. Your breath is your great tool for getting out of your head ,funnily . Your simplebreathing. —and the chaos of the moment—and into your heart. Taking purposeful breaths , slow things down long enough for you to check in and gauge where you're at.
Next, begin to observe your thoughts and feelings. Can you shift the way you're feeling simply by putting your attention wherever you feel sensation? Are you able to look through a different lens and see thihngs that you weren't previously aware of ? All change is created in the present moment; it is from this place that you will be able to cultivate the fertile soil needed for the final step of the full You .


Intention

The third step is to set your intention. An intention is future-based and it’s planted like a seed by putting your attention on it in the present moment.
Your intention might be to stop or slow down long enough to make a clear decision. It may be to stay rooted in a place of acceptance. May be you have realized that you need to eliminate some habits and activities, patterns ofthought , or that you want to find time in your schedule for yourself.

Get clear on your intended outcome by asking yourself what you would like to experience. What choices would you like to make in the moment, and what possibilities are available to you?

If you're a visual person, see yourself being calm, cool, and collected and simply observing your situation or circumstance before pressing on.
If you're more of a kinesthetic person, imagine that you’re hovering just above the situation and feel serene and unaffected by your environment. Stop and reflex how you would like to feel in this situation. Whata Great way.

This will help you compose yourself into a more harmonious state. From this place of clarity, peace, and balance, you can proceed with success .

Whenever you notice that your inner calm has become compromised, take a few minutes to close your eyes and bring your awareness to how you're feeling in that moment. Then—with your attention in the here and now—choose to return to your earlier intention and come back to that place of feeling relaxed, present, and focused. With practice, this exercise will become second nature, allowing you to easily and effortlessly return to your center well .


Best Wishes on Your Adventure  :-  Deepak  Chopra

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Adventures of Life - Explorers




They say "fortune favours the bold" , how can a fearing one meet , go through unknown things , ways ? . The fearful have no place in exploration , going through the unknown in life , adventures of life . As some one put it   

                                  "      Expect Nothing; Be prepared for anything   !!!   "

Adventures are not for the Timid  .


-  Swami Satchitananada

Friday, April 1, 2016

- Wisemen -

Sorrow comes after happiness, and happiness after sorrow;
One does not always suffer sorrow, nor always enjoy happiness.

Only those who are stolid fools, and those who are masters of their souls, enjoy happiness here;
They, however, who occupy an intermediate position suffer misery.

Happiness and misery, prosperity and adversity, gain and loss, death and life, in their turn, visit all creatures;
The wise man, endued with equanimous soul would neither be puffed up with joy, nor be depressed with sorrow.


- Bhishma



Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Passion's , Happiness .

If everyone is happy , the World is Happy   .
-  Swami Satchitanada







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Monday, March 28, 2016

Toughness

Life is Tough ,alright .
Lie is painful , alright .
The end point seems invisible , alright .
All the great stories of inspiration seem to be nothing at a point , allright .  
Life brings the the best of them to the Knees , alright .
Are we here to just survive and eat .
We know , in the end comforts dont matter , pleasures dont matter .
But if we dont make a sense of it , then what  . . ?

Lets give it all , for it's one life . . It wont come back
If we  were to stop , then we would'nt have started at all  . 

 

Monday, March 14, 2016

You are Special - Why ?

"  It is better to live your Life imperfectly, than live an imitation of somebody's else life perfectly "
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Humans are born to evolve, grow from one stage to an another, as per hinduism. A newborn takes faltering steps , fall's down,  gets hurt, gets up and walks and finally learns walking. Mistakes are a part of the process where the child is learning to balance, put the foot in the right place, hold up and walk .

                                                            People too when they are living, make mistakes , recognise their mistakes and getup. This is moving from one stage to an another as human being ! It takes understanding and time to grow. But it surely does happen. In a good place, with right people,  learning happens  , Without good people or a teachers help one can  make mistakes without knowing the right thing. Without the right knowledge the one would make wrong decisions. It is helpful to be with the right people, seek knowledge to be able to learn and live .  

When everything to be done is done. lessons are learnt from the smallest of ones and from  the mightiest, all effort is put in doing the task, one has fulfilled all the moments of life , what else has to be done ? what more has to be achieved ? The best is done .
                                                         All of this is done , when one is living his own life, completing their life's Journey . So copying somebody would not finish your journey , nor would aid the changes in your heart for for you to grow , for you to be better , which make you evolved. It's your Life . Your own adventure . Live it . Your are Unique .You are Special !

Don't be too harsh on yourself for making mistakes for you are growing, you should be learning from your mistakes.



-   Swami Satchitananda 

Thursday, March 10, 2016

What is worth doing right now !

If you are always racing to the next moment , what is happening to the moment now ?

Put your all into the present moment . If you are working put your all into the work right now . if you are in your hobby put all you heart into it passionately ,   If you are with your kids just give them your interest undisturbed , if you're solving a problem give it the best you have got into those few moments you have got, nothing else taking your interest in between. Nobody said life is unlimited. If you have put your best into all the moments you had , then there isn't anything to regret because you have filled the moment with all you have got.

There are limited hours for things in life.

A symptom of the present times .Is ambition the cause of it or misdirection , a mistake ?Is happiness available only after getting the next objective.

How many valuable moment's have we lost to it . Can we get back those moment's ?

Is life running us or are we running life ?

How long will this continue with your life ?

It's for you to decide because , its your choice  .

-Swami chidananda.

Friday, February 26, 2016

Life and Fullness .

“There is surely nothing other than the single purpose of the present moment. A man's whole life is a succession of moment after moment. There will be nothing else to do, and nothing else to pursue. Live being true to the single purpose of the moment.”

And Your Life will be Whole   .

― Tsunetomo Yamamoto, Hagakure: The Book of the Samurai

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Selfless Service


Loyalty : A person chooses to serve , aid another. He does it out of respect and love, not because they are forced. Service to them is not demeaning; service is an expression of their love ; they serve because only they are strong enough to serve with such flawless dedication and such consummate ability. It is point of life worthiness to them.”



“Being in a reltionship is all about selfless service and if one abuses the him, it is no longer a situation of service; it becomes the situation of a victim. It is never acceptable for honour to be a victim. It is never acceptable to allow one to abuse you or rob you of your dignity. In such a situation, it is acceptable to walk away.” 





Monday, February 22, 2016

Worthwhile or not !



It might be a small thing for a grown up to give a handful of grains to the child to feed the sparrows , to stop for 15 minutes for the kid to feed them for the first time but it is magic for the child .  






Now this is Magic daily    .   .

Small thing's matter a Lot  .

No of People affected Unlimited   .

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

SOME FACTS FROM WISE MEN .



It would be good if We could make could make some sense out of this life  .                                



Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Universe and the Moment .

As sunlight maintains the entire universe, so the light of the soul maintains this material body - Bhagavad-gita

Just One more Line from the Ancient Texts which say's good spirits are essential for for a healthy body and healthy Mind . The optimal utilisation of  the moment depends on them .
The Present which will be the past and was the future Once , is all . .  Utilise the moment right and you have made it right . That is the best one can be . .

The Course for the Present was set by our actions in the Past . . utilise now which will be the story for some time , which you will see the past as one day . There might have been mistakes in the past . . but it's ok . Man was made to evolve . Using self Pity and making mistakes all over again is a different thing  .


- Swami Chidananda  !

 

Whom Do You want to Be There With . .


Saturday, January 9, 2016

Purusharthas . . Things which fulfill our life .


What completes our life ? What are the things which fulfill our lives. What makes a ordinary persons life complete  ? not a saints .The ancient seers of India articulated the objectives which would serve for fulfillment of human life as " Purusharthas ".'Purusha' means an individual or person, and 'Artha' means "meaning " .Things which would give meaning to human life here .They articulated four Purusharthas as:Dharma : Righteousness, DutyArtha  : WealthKama   : DesireMoksha : LiberationDharma :Dharma is a difficult term to translate into English, but can roughly be translated as the rightful duty of a person. This is the true calling of a person, what they are born to do & what a person should do righteously at that moment. It's different from person to person . doing their responsible duty as a  mother, father, in office of position etc .
Tuning into the inner guide of the heart allows a person to identify their dharma, their true calling.Artha: Artha is the pursuit of material wealth. Fulfillment of family requirements as food, housing is the duty of family man . It needs money. Some socially beneficial works like charities too require money. Earning money to fulfill ones wants. For maintenance of a well balanced society money or resources are required . Earning "artha" through a righteous way required .. People sometimes believe that the path of spiritual growth and pursuit of material wealth are mutually exclusive, or it's not so.Kama: Kama is fulfilling one's desires.  Desires -- to be wealthy, , sexual needs, recognition, a physical object etc. The Kama purushartha advocates that one's desires in this lifetime need to be fulfilled, albeit in a state of awareness and without harming anyone in the process. For a person to evolve spiritually and to reach the ultimate destination, the barrier of desires needs to be crossed. This can be done either by fulfilling the desires, or by sublimating or transcending them. Suppressing of desires is certainly not recommended because it is like a fully coiled spring that is held down by force, it can erupt unpredictably causing undesirable consequences. As one becomes aware of their desires and one goes about fulfilling them in awareness and without judgement, one soon reaches the stage of being able to sublimate them. Fulfilling desires and being happy is not a sin.Moksha: Moksha means finding God , reaching or liberation or realization of the Self, and is said to be the ultimate destination of this human birth. It is the stage of inner realization that the individual self is the same as the Supreme Self. It is the experience of the flow and fusion of the the cosmos, supreme in one's self. It is the experience of union, oneness. All of them complete a person . They vary in degrees from person to person . Not necessary everybody has them in same degree. Some may need more spiritual work , some may need less . .  Some paths are shorter than others, some are more arduous than others. The path can be difficult to navigate, and the path may not always be visible.With courtesy from ekatvam.org

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

ZEN DROPS !!

SHOW ME YOUR EGO-MIND



One of the most famous legends spun about Bodhidharma is that the seeker Huike (Chinese WadeGiles: Hui-k'o) patiently stood deep in the nocturnal snow outside the old master’s cave, yearning for instruction. He finally hacked off his own left forearm and presented it as a demonstration of his sincere aspiration for complete enlightenment. (In Daoxuan’s earlier and likely more accurate account, wandering bandits had cut off his arm.) Bodhidharma told Huike: “This enlightenment is not to be sought through another.” Huike begged to have his agitated self or mind pacified. The sage retorted, “Show me your self and I will pacify it.” Huike said “I’ve sought it many years but can’t get hold of it.” Bodhidharma then declared: “There! It is pacified once and for all!” Upon hearing this, suddenly Huike completely awakened to his transcendent True Nature before/beyond the ego-self. He was free in/as his Ever-Free Nature. (Huike would retrospectively later be designated the “second Patriarch” of a “Chan School” of Buddhism by authors writing around 700 CE).

But now, what about that forearm—was it still with Huike? Did he care? Was he not the fullness and wholeness of Perfect Realization? In any case, now we know where Hakuin (d.1768) got his famous Zen koan: "What is the sound of one hand?"
And if you pity Huike for that silly old lost forearm, he's still got one very good arm with which to smack you! 




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DRUNK

Japanese Zen master Oda Sesso (1901-66), abbot of Kyoto's Daitokuji monastery, warned, “There is little to choose between a man lying in the ditch heavily drunk on rice liquor, and a man heavily drunk on his own ‘enlightenment’!” 




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Courtesy of :

http://www.enlightened-spirituality.org/Zen_Humor.html